to run counter to

things turn out contrary to the way one wishes (idiom)

to disobey; to violate; to separate; to go against

(literary) to be separated (from a friend, one's homeland etc) for a period of time

to conflict with (an idea or opinion etc); to depart from (established norms or standards etc)

variant of 暌違|暌违[kui2 wei2]

outward devotion but inner opposition (idiom); to pay lip service; to agree overtly, but oppose in secret